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Everybody hopes that when they decide to try for a baby, it’s all going to go smoothly. Some people may already know that it will be a little harder for them but others can end up discovering during the process of trying to conceive that they have fertility issues. Even those who don’t have any diagnosed issues can find that it’s not as easy to become pregnant as they had hoped. It can all take its toll, and everything can become rather stressful. When you’re having trouble conceiving, there are a few things that you should do to make it easier to cope.
Keep Calm
Before doing anything else, take a deep breath and don’t panic. It’s often normal for it to take a little longer than expected to get pregnant. A number of factors can affect success rates, from stress to how much alcohol you drink. Some people even find that if they’re over-planning when trying to conceive, it can create too much stress. Once they stop trying so hard, they fall pregnant. There might not be any cause for concern just yet. Doctors recommend trying for at least a year before scheduling an appointment to determine if there might be an issue.
See Your Doctor
If you’ve been trying to conceive for a year and haven’t been successful, you should make an appointment with your GP. However, the NHS says to see your GP sooner if you are a woman aged 36 or over or if you are concerned about your fertility for another reason, such as having had cancer treatment or an STI. Your GP can start with a range of things, including asking you important questions, doing a physical examination, and carrying out tests such as blood tests. They can also arrange for other tests such as ultrasounds and X-rays.

Explore Your Options
If a fertility issue is identified, there could be various treatment options available to you. Your doctor can help you to explore what’s available, from medicines and surgical procedures to assisted contraception. As well as using the services of the NHS, you might want to explore other options such as visiting a fertility clinic elsewhere. There are restrictions as to what’s available on the NHS, especially for treatments like IVF. Some people consider going elsewhere so that they can find affordable treatment on their timeline instead of having to wait for approval.
Get Support
It can be very stressful and emotionally taxing when you’re struggling to conceive. Having support from other people is essential. Medical support is one thing, but you also need the support of friends and family and other people who understand what you’re going through. As well as speaking to people you know, you can connect with other people trying to conceive through support groups, which you can find both online and offline. Seeing a therapist can also be a good idea.
It can be tough to deal with having trouble conceiving but there are ways that you can learn to cope.